Give with love…

Today its valentines day. I always saw this day as overrated and commercial. Why would people care for each other only one day a year? But today I will use this commercial day to ask your attention for an other kind of love. The love for our fellow humans. The love of care, the love…

Alis Grave Nil..

Nothing is heavy with wings .. To know who I am I needed to remind myself of what i was and never wanted to be anymore. Growth is painful. It hurts to break structure whether that is of your bones or your core. Change is painful and really disturbing. It makes you feel uncertain and…

Love – Inflation

I was sitting home listening to a song “All of me” by John Legend I wondered why it is that one girl gets it all and another gives it all. We learn in economy classes that inflation appears when there is a shortage of the demanding goods. So less means more worth? exactly less means…

The Game..

While winners participate a race to excel, losers participate a race only for the satisfaction and the feeling of being important. Games are played all around the world  but every game has a set of rules. Respect is one of the core values of every game. Playing the game of happiness, the game of love,…

Where the light enters

  This is inspired by all those people who give, love and care without conditions . This is for all the courageous people who dare to live like it matters despite the fact that they have lost faith, hope, love and lots of nights and days wondering why they found pain while they tried to…

Parenting Exams…

How often in life do you get the feeling that you are stuck? Stuck in a bad memory, an unhealthy relationship, a difficult decision process. Stuck in a dark space with no lights to turn on and no support to hold on. We all are living life for quite some years and never has it…

The devil tears..

Whenever a tear drop spills its existence it feels like the heaven has lost its innocence. Whenever i think about you it's like i have destroyed an important piece of my existence. I thought of you as a poem in its perfection . Not knowing that even real life dictated fiction. It's sad how you promised love…

My Islam is …

Part one: Before you start to read my article i would ask you to look at this video. This is a campagne video made by a political party in the Netherlands. The party is called PVV and is led by Geert Wilders. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BPCwOEDkbwg Now that you have seen this video i would like to clear…

Rewind E-volution

Before reading my blog I would like you to answer the following questions for yourself:  How often do you evaluate not your success, financial or motivational growth but your emotional growth? If you could choose between making a lot of money or helping someone with something humanitarian what would you choose?  If you are married…

The Same Mistake..

They say that to much is hard to catch with heart and mind. If a nature is given to you, you will nurture its gift by chereshing it, feeding it and expanding it. A certain mistake is made by each and one of us. We grow out of it. We learn to forget. Most importantly…